The 100% candidate doesn't exist. That's right ; the perfect fit is a myth right up there with pain-less dentistry and painless waxing. Instead of wasting time searching for exact match, look for the guy who is free of deal breakers and has 80% of what you want in a partner. The other 20% you can grow.
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Life is a compromise. Relationships are a compromise. Does that mean you should give up on the 20% you dont like? No way. You work on it. And if all you ever get is 80% of the missing 20%, take my word, you are going to be married and happy for a long time.
p/s : via Love Smart (page 29)
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